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Tuesday, March 12, 2013
SUMMER IS COMING LADIES
OH SHOOT! REAL SUN? NO MORE CANNED SUN?! yes please! :) THOUGHT THE PHOTO WAS FUNNY ! :)
Signs he likes me?
HEY GIRLS! and maybe some guys....awkward ;)
No though, seriously! hey everyone, got a few questions to answer since i havnt logged onto here in a while...
QUESTION: "So there's this guy at my youth group and I THINK he likes me, but honestly im just not sure. He kinda hangs around me alot, and he texts me at least 2 times a week. Like he is cool and stuff, and I kinda like him...so if he liked meh that would be REALLLLLLYYYY cool, you know? I dont know maybe you have an oppinion on this? Maybe this is just a dumb question, but guys can be really confusing and, he is just really cute and stuff...sooooo yep! THANK YA!"
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I know what you are feeling sister. and at youth groups it can be really hard to tell since you are expected to be more reserved and conservative at youth groups.
Well signs that guys like you are
*he hangs around you alot!
*he texts you first and calls you sometimes
*he asks about your hobbies and remembers what you tell him
*he points his feet towards you in a group
*he finds excuses to talk to you, and touch you (joking nudge, hug goodbye, elbows you...etc)
*he compliments the stupid stuff...(nice hair, cool eyes, nice necklace, woah nice shoes...etc)
*he talks to you in front of his friends, or about you to his friends
Does this guy do any of these things continuously?
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you also have to watch his behavior, does he do this with alot of girls? cause if so he's a natural flirt OR just reallly friendly. I would try flirting a little bit with him. compliment him, take interest in football if he plays football, text him first sometimes, laugh at his stupid joke, try to hangout. . . use that feminine charm the good lord gave you girl!
HOPE THIS HELPS! and goodluck :)
No though, seriously! hey everyone, got a few questions to answer since i havnt logged onto here in a while...
QUESTION: "So there's this guy at my youth group and I THINK he likes me, but honestly im just not sure. He kinda hangs around me alot, and he texts me at least 2 times a week. Like he is cool and stuff, and I kinda like him...so if he liked meh that would be REALLLLLLYYYY cool, you know? I dont know maybe you have an oppinion on this? Maybe this is just a dumb question, but guys can be really confusing and, he is just really cute and stuff...sooooo yep! THANK YA!"
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I know what you are feeling sister. and at youth groups it can be really hard to tell since you are expected to be more reserved and conservative at youth groups.
Well signs that guys like you are
*he hangs around you alot!
*he texts you first and calls you sometimes
*he asks about your hobbies and remembers what you tell him
*he points his feet towards you in a group
*he finds excuses to talk to you, and touch you (joking nudge, hug goodbye, elbows you...etc)
*he compliments the stupid stuff...(nice hair, cool eyes, nice necklace, woah nice shoes...etc)
*he talks to you in front of his friends, or about you to his friends
Does this guy do any of these things continuously?
______
you also have to watch his behavior, does he do this with alot of girls? cause if so he's a natural flirt OR just reallly friendly. I would try flirting a little bit with him. compliment him, take interest in football if he plays football, text him first sometimes, laugh at his stupid joke, try to hangout. . . use that feminine charm the good lord gave you girl!
HOPE THIS HELPS! and goodluck :)
Group Date Preparation
So I got this question in my email from one of my viewers!
Reposting the question- "So i kinda like dis guy and, we are gonna hang out saterday, well not just me an him, but me an him, an a big group of frends. I wanted to know how i could look cute and kinda flirty, without like lookin like i tryed to look good for him, and without sticking out because i looked to fancy or wateva. So any ideas?
Like your blog it helps meh out and it's cool to hear your oppinons! tanks! muah!"
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THANKS FOR THE KIND WORDS FIRST OF ALL! second of all...lets simplify this question! Im guessing your question is:
*you want to look pretty without making it obvious you are looking pretty for him.
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Well first of all, group hangouts are the PERFECT place to start getting to know someone you like better, and to start making your impression. Before we talk about the outfit thing, here are a couple of things you want to avoid during a group hangout.
*crowding his space (hang with him, but hang with others to!)
*excessivly flirting (you both might end up getting hurassed or made fun of by the other friends in the group, and he might get upset, or emberissed)
*trying to hard to get his attention (it will appear really annoying and desperate-be yourself girly!)
OUTFIT TIME!
alright, so since it is still a bit chilly but warm enough to not wear a huge winter coat ;) WE HAVE OPTIONS.
figure out your personality (or the personality you are portraying to him!)
easy options:
*tomboy (skinny jeans, sneakers, toms, baggy tshirts, ponytale! cute but tomboy!)
*comphy cutie/confidence: (sweaters, leggings, skinny jeans, toms*, boots (uggs*), scarf)
*girly/preppy (nice blouse with a pair of nice dark jeans, or a casual skirt. Flats or nice sandals for shoes)
*conservative: (nothing revealing, nice jeans, flats, maybe a nice tennisshoe, denim skirts, a tshirt or blouse that FITS YOU and covers you up!)
I personaly am comfy cutie ALL THE WAY! I am confident enough in myself to not have to rely on clothes. My typical outfit when hanging with friends or going on dates is skinny jeans or leggings, white toms* or uggs*, and a baggy sweater. I adore my look because it is SOOO comfy and comes off as cute to most crowds.
Where something that compliments you, and that you arnt going to be freezing or to hot in.
ANOTHER THING: dont wear somthing slutty-you want to get his attention, YES, but you dont want him to think you're easy! so please cover your boobs up and dont wear dem booty shorts. Some guys dont like this, and it will make the group seem uncomfortable.
GOODLUCK! and remember, be you, but be a stylish you! ;)
Reposting the question- "So i kinda like dis guy and, we are gonna hang out saterday, well not just me an him, but me an him, an a big group of frends. I wanted to know how i could look cute and kinda flirty, without like lookin like i tryed to look good for him, and without sticking out because i looked to fancy or wateva. So any ideas?
Like your blog it helps meh out and it's cool to hear your oppinons! tanks! muah!"
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
THANKS FOR THE KIND WORDS FIRST OF ALL! second of all...lets simplify this question! Im guessing your question is:
*you want to look pretty without making it obvious you are looking pretty for him.
_____________________________________________________________________________
Well first of all, group hangouts are the PERFECT place to start getting to know someone you like better, and to start making your impression. Before we talk about the outfit thing, here are a couple of things you want to avoid during a group hangout.
*crowding his space (hang with him, but hang with others to!)
*excessivly flirting (you both might end up getting hurassed or made fun of by the other friends in the group, and he might get upset, or emberissed)
*trying to hard to get his attention (it will appear really annoying and desperate-be yourself girly!)
OUTFIT TIME!
alright, so since it is still a bit chilly but warm enough to not wear a huge winter coat ;) WE HAVE OPTIONS.
figure out your personality (or the personality you are portraying to him!)
easy options:
*tomboy (skinny jeans, sneakers, toms, baggy tshirts, ponytale! cute but tomboy!)
*comphy cutie/confidence: (sweaters, leggings, skinny jeans, toms*, boots (uggs*), scarf)
*girly/preppy (nice blouse with a pair of nice dark jeans, or a casual skirt. Flats or nice sandals for shoes)
*conservative: (nothing revealing, nice jeans, flats, maybe a nice tennisshoe, denim skirts, a tshirt or blouse that FITS YOU and covers you up!)
I personaly am comfy cutie ALL THE WAY! I am confident enough in myself to not have to rely on clothes. My typical outfit when hanging with friends or going on dates is skinny jeans or leggings, white toms* or uggs*, and a baggy sweater. I adore my look because it is SOOO comfy and comes off as cute to most crowds.
Where something that compliments you, and that you arnt going to be freezing or to hot in.
ANOTHER THING: dont wear somthing slutty-you want to get his attention, YES, but you dont want him to think you're easy! so please cover your boobs up and dont wear dem booty shorts. Some guys dont like this, and it will make the group seem uncomfortable.
GOODLUCK! and remember, be you, but be a stylish you! ;)
Monday, November 5, 2012
My homecoming dress isnt fancy, or expensive, is this okay?
I got a question already! woah! :D okay so... ITS FINE!!! homecoming is for having fun, and it doesnt matter if you have a date, or a 100 dollar dress, or got your hair/nails done! ITS JUST FUN! and we all know by the end of the night we look torn apart from dancing and yelling and being nuts! :P
My homecoming dress was NOT FANCY....---------------------AT ALL!
I went in a navy blue sundress with a floral white stitching design at the bottom.. it was made of a cheep cotton material, i got it at Ross* for $8.50 haha_ it looked cute though.
I paired it with some red lipgloss that made it pop!
I had tan heels, and my hair was down and curly pinned off to the side a bit,
and I wore no jewlery haha.
It took me less than 30 minutes to get ready!-
I will post a pic whenever I get a chance!
P.S. HAVE FUN! rock that non-designer dress :)
My homecoming dress was NOT FANCY....---------------------AT ALL!
I went in a navy blue sundress with a floral white stitching design at the bottom.. it was made of a cheep cotton material, i got it at Ross* for $8.50 haha_ it looked cute though.
I paired it with some red lipgloss that made it pop!
I had tan heels, and my hair was down and curly pinned off to the side a bit,
and I wore no jewlery haha.
It took me less than 30 minutes to get ready!-
I will post a pic whenever I get a chance!
Why isn't he texting me back?
So this is my first post! YAY I acualy recieved this question from a friend...
She asked me this- "Why do you think this guy isn't texting me back, even though he said he likes me...?"
GOSH IF I HAD A NICKEL FOR EVERYTIME I ASKED MYSELF THIS, I WOULD BE SO RICH!
I looked around the web a little bit, and talked to my guyfriends, and also just though about it...My answer to this question is this
"Girls and guys have different minds...girls think pink, boys think blue" (figure of speech) "He is probably just busy"...
^^^Thats what i hear all the time...but ladies, let's be honest here...how long does it take you to send 'cant talk right now' or 'hey sorry, but im busy ill try to text you later'....WHAT LIKE 30 SECONDS? I'm sorry but the "hes just busy exuse, i think is rarely true...I think when you "officially like eachother" you are making somewhat of a comitment to eachother, even if its something as simple as "I will flirt with you" haha, this comitment, creates a "NO" sign to "your guy"...saying "no you cannot flirt with other girls" "no you cannot go a whole day without complimenting me" "no you cannot go a day without talking to me..."
He also just might need a break (im not giving him an exuse, because i think its only appropriate that your guy texts you back, at least saying he cant text if nothing else...) but the pressure and constant distraction of texting might be turning him off...sending him 1 text or sending him 6 wont make a difference, that is a promise - K so...You say "but he's always texted me back before we liked eachother" ....OF COURSE! he was trying to win you over, and now that he's won you, ....well he's won! he feels like he doesnt need to try as hard...
Now when i was reading about this topic from multiple sites, it said this "ladies dont worry about it, it means more to you then to him that he hasnt texted back..."
UNTRUE!!!! and i have a short story to back this up
My friend and me started liking eachother about a week ago...he always texted back, but when we started liking eachother he didnt try as hard...well over this weekend he didnt text me back once- and i sent him 6 messages!....TODAY i facebooked him seeing he was online, and he facebooked back, but was being kinda rude, and when i asked him why he didnt text back he goes "busy"....Well about 2 hours ago, he told me he wasnt texting back as much because he had lost interest...THIS WAS NOT A PLAYER TYPE GUY...hes super conservative, and has only had 2 girlfriends (hes 17) ----so long story short...TEXTING does mean something even to guys...
(SHORT ANSWER)
if a guy doesnt text you back (assuming his phone hasnt been taken/shut off/broken) he probably isnt into you anymore, or is loosing interest...if you really like him, start playing kinda hard to get, or spice up the relationship with phone calls, or skype, or even just doing sweet things for him..because if a relationship revolves mostly around texting, he will get bored....FAST!
HOPE THIS WAS HELPFUL!
She asked me this- "Why do you think this guy isn't texting me back, even though he said he likes me...?"
GOSH IF I HAD A NICKEL FOR EVERYTIME I ASKED MYSELF THIS, I WOULD BE SO RICH!
I looked around the web a little bit, and talked to my guyfriends, and also just though about it...My answer to this question is this
"Girls and guys have different minds...girls think pink, boys think blue" (figure of speech) "He is probably just busy"...
^^^Thats what i hear all the time...but ladies, let's be honest here...how long does it take you to send 'cant talk right now' or 'hey sorry, but im busy ill try to text you later'....WHAT LIKE 30 SECONDS? I'm sorry but the "hes just busy exuse, i think is rarely true...I think when you "officially like eachother" you are making somewhat of a comitment to eachother, even if its something as simple as "I will flirt with you" haha, this comitment, creates a "NO" sign to "your guy"...saying "no you cannot flirt with other girls" "no you cannot go a whole day without complimenting me" "no you cannot go a day without talking to me..."
He also just might need a break (im not giving him an exuse, because i think its only appropriate that your guy texts you back, at least saying he cant text if nothing else...) but the pressure and constant distraction of texting might be turning him off...sending him 1 text or sending him 6 wont make a difference, that is a promise - K so...You say "but he's always texted me back before we liked eachother" ....OF COURSE! he was trying to win you over, and now that he's won you, ....well he's won! he feels like he doesnt need to try as hard...
Now when i was reading about this topic from multiple sites, it said this "ladies dont worry about it, it means more to you then to him that he hasnt texted back..."
UNTRUE!!!! and i have a short story to back this up
My friend and me started liking eachother about a week ago...he always texted back, but when we started liking eachother he didnt try as hard...well over this weekend he didnt text me back once- and i sent him 6 messages!....TODAY i facebooked him seeing he was online, and he facebooked back, but was being kinda rude, and when i asked him why he didnt text back he goes "busy"....Well about 2 hours ago, he told me he wasnt texting back as much because he had lost interest...THIS WAS NOT A PLAYER TYPE GUY...hes super conservative, and has only had 2 girlfriends (hes 17) ----so long story short...TEXTING does mean something even to guys...
(SHORT ANSWER)
if a guy doesnt text you back (assuming his phone hasnt been taken/shut off/broken) he probably isnt into you anymore, or is loosing interest...if you really like him, start playing kinda hard to get, or spice up the relationship with phone calls, or skype, or even just doing sweet things for him..because if a relationship revolves mostly around texting, he will get bored....FAST!
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