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Friday, September 20, 2013

Can I practice for my first kiss?

Original question:

"I'm 13 and I think im going to have my first kiss next Saturday...and ive never kissed anyone else, and im really nervous, and i dont know if i can like prepare myself, or practice, or SOMETHING just so i dont embarras myself...you know? -Ally G."

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First kiss jitters...okay before I give you some tips, im going to share my retarded first kiss story.

I had just turned 15, and I went to the movies with my BEST friend of two years. He and I had kind of joked about kissing, but he had kissed a couple girls, and I was still a "kissing virgin" (as my bestfriend calls it).well we sat through the whole movie, he put his arm around me and we were flirting (which we had never REALLY done before), and when the movie was over he and I walked to Starbucks. we were sitting outside on the ground and he pretty much just leaned over and kissed me. I was a bit shocked, because it was HORRIBLE. then he kind of laughed and goes, "yeah I pretty much just missed...can I try that again?" and I said sure, and we kissed a bit more. It was a cute, silly, fun first kiss story, and the butterflies were IMMENSE. :)

*there you have it! since then, I have become kind of "obsessed" with the chemistry of kissing, and how to make a kiss the best it can be... *

So you cant REALLY practice kissing...nothing feels quite like it unless your locking lips with an ACTUAL person... but there are things to do to prepare.

1. try kissing your hand a bit, mostly just to get accustomed to moving your lips. Movement and rhythm is very important when kissing. trust me.

2. FRESH BREATH! that's self explanatory....for real though...get breath strips or something that you can nonchalantly pop in without him noticing

3. Look good! Feel Good, BE CONFIDENT. last thing you want to do is worry about him not liking your hair, or noticing a big pimple right on your forehead. LOOK GOOD, FEEL GOOD, BE CONFIDENT THAT YOU ARE DOING SO!

4. no tongue...if he tries to slip the tongue just think to yourself. *DONT stick yours all the way in his mouth merely touch his with your swirl around 2 times and close your mouth asap.* if you are confident in tongue kissing, then well, best of luck to you, but tongue kissing is a hard art to master... (correctly)

5. keep conversation going throughout the night ...dont make things awkward, and after SAY SOMETHING...say something like "wow your good at that" or giggle politely, say you have to find your friend, and kiss his cheek cutely. thats a good way to end a kissing session.

GOODLUCK MY LADY! AND EMAIL ME LET ME KNOW HOW IT WENT, IF IT HAPPENED, AND PLEASE ENJOY YOURSELF, THATS AN EXPERIENCE YOU'LL ONLY EXPERIENCE ONCE IN YOUR WHOLE LIFE! :)





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