Group Date Preparation

So I got this question in my email from one of my viewers!

Reposting the question- "So i kinda like dis guy and, we are gonna hang out saterday, well not just me an him, but me an him, an a big group of frends. I wanted to know how i could look cute and kinda flirty, without like lookin like i tryed to look good for him, and without sticking out because i looked to fancy or wateva. So any ideas?
Like your blog it helps meh out and it's cool to hear your oppinons! tanks! muah!"

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THANKS FOR THE KIND WORDS FIRST OF ALL! second of all...lets simplify this question! Im guessing your question is:

*you want to look pretty without making it obvious you are looking pretty for him.

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Well first of all, group hangouts are the PERFECT place to start getting to know someone you like better, and to start making your impression. Before we talk about the outfit thing, here are a couple of things you want to avoid during a group hangout.

*crowding his space (hang with him, but hang with others to!)

*excessivly flirting (you both might end up getting hurassed or made fun of by the other friends in the group, and he might get upset, or emberissed)

*trying to hard to get his attention (it will appear really annoying and desperate-be yourself girly!)

OUTFIT TIME!

alright, so since it is still a bit chilly but warm enough to not wear a huge winter coat ;) WE HAVE OPTIONS.

figure out your personality (or the personality you are portraying to him!)

easy options:

*tomboy (skinny jeans, sneakers, toms, baggy tshirts, ponytale! cute but tomboy!)

*comphy cutie/confidence: (sweaters, leggings, skinny jeans, toms*, boots (uggs*), scarf)

*girly/preppy (nice blouse with a pair of nice dark jeans, or a casual skirt. Flats or nice sandals for shoes)

*conservative: (nothing revealing, nice jeans, flats, maybe a nice tennisshoe, denim skirts, a tshirt or blouse that FITS YOU and covers you up!)

I personaly am comfy cutie ALL THE WAY! I am confident enough in myself to not have to rely on clothes. My typical outfit when hanging with friends or going on dates is skinny jeans or leggings, white toms* or uggs*, and a baggy sweater. I adore my look because it is SOOO comfy and comes off as cute to most crowds.

Where something that compliments you, and that you arnt going to be freezing or to hot in.

ANOTHER THING: dont wear somthing slutty-you want to get his attention, YES, but you dont want him to think you're easy! so please cover your boobs up and dont wear dem booty shorts. Some guys dont like this, and it will make the group seem uncomfortable.

GOODLUCK! and remember, be you, but be a stylish you! ;)