Make Him Want to Text You

This seems to be a really popular topic between myself and my friends... PLUS the guy I like is NOT much of a social media guy, so therefore, I'm dealing with this problem FIRST HAND.

Here's the backstory as to how i know these tips WORK. ***(however if you just want the how-to, and not the story, skip to the part that is highlighted in red!)***

So when i first met this guy, he never texted me. and when i would text him, he'd take hours to respond...or wouldnt respond at all. when i would ask him about it he would say "Honestly im just not a social media guy...i dont really text much, im no good at it, and i dont enjoy it."

This is NOT fun to hear from the guy you like, because lets be honest here ladies-- we LOVE texting the boy we like, and we WANT to know what he's doing, who he's with, and we want to just get to know him in the less awkward, more convenient way.

So when i heard this, my heart KIND OF dropped. But i just went on my merry little way. and i decided, if he didnt want to text me much, that was fine. well that mentality only lasted so long until i felt like i HAD to talk to him (Dont make fun of me, we've all been there ;)

So this went on for about 2 weeks. I'd text him like every 2-3 days, and we wouldnt talk MUCH just like 10 texts....so not much of a conversation...

WELL NOW I AM PROUD TO SAY HE TEXTS ME ALMOST EVERYDAY

****Here is what i did!****

1. Leave him alone for a couple days at a time. (dont text him every second you want to...and boy this step is hard to actually follow through with!)

2. When you're texting DO NOT let conversation die! play the questions game, or SOMETHING that will intrigue him .

3. When you're texting, talk about HANGING OUT, so he knows that you dont just want a virtual relationship, you want to actually hang out with him as well!

4. Dont respond at lightning speed. See how long its taking him to respond, and try to match that!

5. ABORT ABORT. if that conversation is getting boring, or if he is acting uninterested, leave the conversation before he does.

6. IF HE DOES TEXT YOU FIRST...show him that you liked that! mention how pleasantly surprised you were...or something along those lines!

7. You dont always NEED an EXCUSE. if you start using that "oops wrong person" excuse...he'll catch on, trust me...boys are that naive. BE CONFIDENT.

8. No goodmorning/goodnight texts on your part..they dont find that cute unless you're IN A RELATIONSHIP. even then..some guys just find it clingy and anoying.

9. Dont stress if you go a day without talking! KEEP YOURSELF BUSY. it will make time go much faster! :) and dont start inventing stories about how "HE HATES ME", and "hes not texting me cause he doesnt like me.." while these things COULD be true haha, they rarely are. :) guys can sense when you've just been staring at your phone waiting for a response. dont give him the pleasure!

10. COMPLIMENT HIM. guys love to be complimented. they love to have their ego pumped up. Dont be creepy like "you're eyes are so gorgeous" say things like "wow you're really good at  insert sport here   "
or "you looked very handsome last night." BOYS LOVE THAT WORD<<< it seems old fashioned, but OH MY GOSH, they love it! makes them feel mature, successful, and like they're just the hottest man alive.

So these tips worked for me-- I now have the boy i like texting me almost everyday and the conversation really doesnt get boring anymore!

GOODLUCK AND MAY THE ODDS BE EVER IN YOUR FAVOR!